Celebrating Fatherhood: Rituals and Traditions for New Dads

Rituals and traditions have long played a central role in human culture, fostering a sense of belonging and connection among families and communities. When it comes to celebrating the arrival of a baby, these practices not only honour the newborn’s life but also welcome them into their family and social circles. Historically, these rituals were significant milestones, passed down through generations, binding families together through shared stories and practices.

In this blog, we focus on rituals and celebrations specifically centered around dads and how they mark the momentous occasion of becoming a father.

Wetting the Baby’s Head

"Wetting the baby’s head" is a tradition rooted in Irish heritage. Originally, the top tier of a couple’s wedding cake was soaked in whiskey, reserved for the baby’s christening, and ceremonially sprinkled over the baby's head while the rest was shared among the adults. This evolved into a more informal practice of male family members and friends drinking together to celebrate the newborn’s arrival.

Today, "wetting the baby’s head" may take the form of casual get-togethers involving beer, sports, fishing trips, or gaming sessions. While some criticize the practice as unnecessary (given the dad didn’t experience labor), it’s a moment for fathers to celebrate their role in the journey. From supporting through pregnancy, sharing the emotional load, and helping with household tasks, dads also deserve recognition.

After all, if it’s good enough for Prince William to proclaim “Drinks are on me to wet the baby’s head!” at the Fountain Abbey pub, it’s good enough for any proud new father!

Passing Out Cigars

Another long-standing tradition is fathers handing out cigars to announce and celebrate their baby's arrival. This practice has Native American origins, where cigars or similar gifts were exchanged to mark significant events. By the 17th and 18th centuries, when men were excluded from the birthing process, they gathered outside to smoke cigars while awaiting the baby’s birth. While this custom is less common today, it remains a nostalgic gesture of camaraderie and celebration for many.

Dadchelor Parties

A more modern addition to fatherhood traditions is the "Dadchelor Party," also called a "Man Shower" or "Baby Stag." Modeled after bachelor parties, these events honor the father-to-be with one last hurrah before the baby arrives. Hosted by friends, these celebrations are usually held before or early in the third trimester.

Far from being about lamenting "life as they know it," Dadchelor Parties are joyful occasions where dads can connect with friends, receive heartfelt advice, share laughs, and commemorate the life-changing journey ahead. Whether it’s sharing beers, playing games, or even going on a group adventure, these gatherings create cherished memories for the father-to-be.

A Push Present for Dad

Another emerging tradition is the "Push Present for Dad," a counterpart to the gift often given to mums after their baby’s birth to honour their incredible accomplishment. While dads aren’t the ones doing the actual pushing, they’ve often been there every step of the way—rubbing sore backs, fetching 3 a.m. ginger ale, and providing unwavering support during labour and pregnancy.

Why not show your appreciation with a thoughtful gift that acknowledges his role in the journey? Whether it’s something practical, sentimental, or simply fun, this "support present" (a more fitting name!) is a meaningful way to remind him that you wouldn’t want to go through this life-changing experience with anyone else.

Honouring Fatherhood Traditions

While some traditions like cigar-passing are rooted in history, others, like Dadchelor Parties and Push Presents, reflect the evolving roles and recognition of fathers today. Whether it’s a pint at the pub, heartfelt advice from friends, or a small gesture to mark the occasion, these rituals strengthen bonds and celebrate the incredible journey of fatherhood.

Most importantly, taking time to reflect on what the dad-to-be dreams of teaching, sharing, and experiencing with his little one makes the celebration even more special.

Becoming a parent is a monumental milestone for both partners, and it’s worth commemorating together as a team. These traditions and rituals not only honour the father’s unique role but also highlight the shared joy of welcoming a new life into the world.